Are you allowed to enjoy your money? It’s a question many people silently wrestle with after a pay rise or financial success. You upgrade your flight, buy a bigger home, get a nicer car, or book a nicer hotel. You say yes to brunch without checking your balance. Then, later that evening, a wave of guilt hits. The online advice warns against lifestyle creep and urges you not to spend your pay rise. Suddenly, you wonder, “Should I really be spending like this?” This confusion i

Lending money to a close friend can feel like a generous act but it often leads to complicated emotions and strained relationships. When a loan goes unpaid, the silence that follows can be deafening. This situation sits at the crossroads of generosity, guilt, and power and it challenges the belief that money does not change relationships. It does, not because people are bad but because expectations are rarely clear. Mixing friendship with unstructured money creates imbalance:

I saw a TikTok recently that genuinely made me stop scrolling. A girl was saying that a Rolex isn’t even that impressive in Dubai because there are “better” watches. I don’t know watches. I have an Apple watch that I'm more than happy with. That’s not the point. The point is this: even a Rolex isn’t enough anymore. If something that most people would consider a symbol of success can suddenly be labelled “average”, then what chance do the rest of us have of ever feeling like w